
In the course of the dialogue we were talking about skills and personalities, strengths and weaknesses, and one things led to another and we pulled up my CliftonStrengths from 2009 and compared them to my results from 2023.
In 2009, my #1 was Command. Decisive, take-charge, sure of myself. By 2023, Command had slipped to #7, and Deliberative had fallen from #3 all the way to #31. What climbed to the top instead were Input, Learner, and Intellection. Curiosity. The pull to gather and understand before I act.
Then Stephanie asked me a question I still can't answer cleanly: "Which one do you think is the real you?"
The research says these results aren't supposed to move much. Gallup's own data shows them holding steady over a decade. Mine didn't stay put.
And honestly? I don't know which version is the real me. I think it lives somewhere in the middle.
But here is what I keep coming back to. So many of us pour our energy into wishing our weaknesses weren't there. I could spend years mourning the Command I used to lead with. Or I can pay attention to what actually lights me up now, and make it GREAT.
Thanks for the question, Stefanie Couch
#NHPA #IHI





